What Other People Think about Christians
We continue to document the opinions of non-christians through independent research and engaging with people outside our faith. These are NOT the opinions we hold, but the opinions and experiences of those outside the Christian faith. We hope it motivates and inspires you to join our cause
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The whole concept of modesty and trying to control what women wear I find to be disgusting for a variety or reasons. There is no such thing as being too modest and any clothing that is functional, comfortable or enjoyable is immodest. I think it is disgraceful to shame half the human population for their bodies. If seeing knees or shoulders and god-forbid one’s shirt ride up to expose some belly makes one to feel lustful then it is their own problem. Women should not have to accommodate their sexual deviance. The problem runs much deeper than clothing is concerned. This modesty obsession also lends itself to victim blaming. When women are assaulted (whether physically or sexually) it is inevitable that they will be asked what they were wearing at the time- thus implying it was their fault because had they dressed differently they wouldn’t have been attacked (not blaming the attacker, the person responsible). And those who sit silent through the victim-blaming are just as guilty as those who victim-blame. Don’t think that the church is above participating in rape culture. This modesty obsession adds an endless fuel to that fire.
What I don’t get is why you label this post “Christians” when everything you say can be said about every religion. In fact, if you paid more attention, you’d notice that many Muslim nations, in particular, actually kill those who do not believe as they do. I believe in Christ, and a Creator, but that in no way means I can’t think you’re an asshole.